标题:每日成长必知:踏入社会才明白的26个道理
Title: Daily Growth Essentials: 26 Truths You Only Realize After Entering Society
开头:每日成长必知:踏入社会才明白的26个道理
Introduction: Daily Growth Essentials: 26 Truths You Only Realize After Entering Society
1、除非对方主动开口请教,否则不要随便指点别人什么。不论你是真的比对方高明,还是仅仅是你自以为比对方高明。
1. Unless someone asks for your advice, don’t offer it freely. Whether you are genuinely better than the other person or just think you are.
2、不要尝试去说服任何人,这里的说就是读“shuo”,shuo服是不管用的,当时服了,很快就变回去了。省下说的时间,用行动和结果碾压最有效。
2. Don’t try to persuade anyone. Persuasion, pronounced “shuo,” is useless; even if they agree, they’ll soon revert to their old ways. Save your breath and use actions and results to speak for themselves.
3、社交的起点是等价交换,不一定都是指钱。比如你可以给对方带来炫耀的快感,也行。
3. The starting point of social interaction is equal exchange, not necessarily in terms of money. For example, you can bring them the pleasure of showing off.
4、谈钱不一定伤感情,但谈感情真的伤钱。
4. Talking about money may not hurt relationships, but discussing relationships can indeed cost money.
5、无欲则刚。不求人就不怕人。但是记得给自己留后路,不求人也不必得罪人。
5. No desires mean strength. If you don’t seek help from others, you won’t fear them. But remember to leave yourself a way out; not seeking help doesn’t mean offending others.
6、只关心和自己有关的事。你是亿万富翁也好,是政府要员也罢。你没打算分我三千万五千万,或者没打算提拔我个正处副处,就都跟我没关系。在商言商,实事求是。
6. Only care about things related to yourself. Whether you’re a billionaire or a government official, if you don’t plan to share 30 or 50 million with me or promote me to a mid-level position, it has nothing to do with me. Stick to business and be realistic.
7、除了救命钱,拿给你就没打算要回来的。其他钱不要借出去。现在贷款,花呗,信用卡都非常方便了。
7. Except for emergency funds, if you give it away without intending to get it back, don’t lend money.
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